Leather is quite a classic fetish, and there are very few people who even if they don’t consider it a fetish, they don’t dislike it and can play along with those that do making it a very gay sex friendly fetish to have.

Why Gay Men Love Leather

Strong, tactile and stylish, with leather what is not to love? Men have been attracted to the sight, smell and touch of leather since it has been worn. It is a common and much-loved gay sexual fetish and it is not hard to understand why.

Gay Leather History

London in the 50’s seems to be the start of the Gay Leather clubs and events that you can still find today, spreading throughout the UK in the 70’s these fan clubs created their own scene around their favourite fetish – leather. Rejecting the ‘of the time’ stereotyped gay man as effeminate, these men wanted to demonstrate how masculine they were, and leather was the perfect vehicle to do it in. Reclaiming a masculine identity, the link with BDSM, the delicious smell, look and feel of leather and the rugged biker culture that evolved, it was no wonder leather clubs went from strength to strength.

Leather Fetish Options

Leather can be a fetish all by itself or it can be linked into other gay sex fetishes or role plays. If you just love the leather for itself then probably the more leather the better. Sexy leather pants, leather jackets, even leather cushions and bedsheets are all possible and popular when you have a leather fetish. Perhaps your leather fetish is part of a wider BDSM fetish where you want to be dominated by a leather clad master, or a gang or horny bikers gangbang you or you are dominating a chunky masculine leather clad sexy man. Whatever your fetish or needs a gay escort can fulfil them all.

Gay Escorts and Leather Fetish

If you have a leather fetish the best way to have the most fun with it is by spending time with a gay escort who can really let you indulge in your fetish, however far you want it to go. Just imagine the many of your dreams, but clad in leather and willing to fulfil your every gay sex fantasy – well you can stop imagining it and simply live it by finding your favourite gay escort on sleepyboy.com

You may also like to choose some leather implements, perhaps a leather whip, leather masks, leather riding crop or a leather flogger, all waiting to be used in your kinky leather fantasy.

Top to toe in leather ready for a night out at a sexy club, or a steamy BDSM night in or even a night of naughty role play, whatever your leather fetish dreams are, let them loose and free with a gay escort who will be more than happy to make those dreams into reality and then great memories – until the next time!

There are many misconceptions about gay sex, much of it around how much sex is ‘normal’ and how much everyone else is actually getting. Many men love having sex, and I mean really love it, want to have as much of it as they can possibly get and who can really blame them when it feels so good. So, when is how much too much and how can you feel confident and happy with the amount of gay sex you are having.

How Much Gay Sex are you Having?

Being a sex addict and simply loving gay sex are two very different things so how can you decide if you are having too much sex? If you spend a lot of time with the horny and handsome gay escorts on www.sleepyboy.com or end up in bed with different strangers on a regular basis then you may be doing some reflecting on your own sexual behaviours. Re-centring how we approach gay sex, whom we have it with and how often we have it is not a bad thing to do, but equally having a healthy and enjoyable gay sex life is not something that should be shied away from.

What is a Sex Addict

The WHO (World Health Organisation) advise that they don’t use the term ‘Sex addiction’ as there is not enough clinical evidence that sex or porn is addictive. They do recognise something called compulsive Sexual Behaviour Disorder’ which has a very strict definition where one’s life is very out of balance and control before they can be defined as suffering from this disorder. Often what society calls sex addiction is simply a judgment that you re having more sex than most other people, this is also judged from a hetro-normal, sex-negative point of view. So, what you may feel is too much sex is simply a feeling of being different from what society says you should be – and we all know how right society is about everything!

So, if you are not a sex addict then how much sex is appropriate for you. The answer to that question is simply as much as you want to fit into your life, sex that gives balance to your life and where you enjoy it and it doesn’t take over or become more dominant than other parts of your life. That is not too say that you don’t have a problem, but often the sex is a symptom and not a cause.

Lots of Gay Sex is Great Sex

If you enjoy gay sex and you want it every day – why not! If you are not in a relationship, then this may mean spending time with gay escorts or hooking up with guys in bars etc. As the latter can be time consuming and you want a great experience then hiring a gay escort is the easiest and most satisfying way to have all the gay sex you want, ensure it is great gay sex and then go on with the rest of your day feeling amazing.

Loving gay sex does not make you a sex addict, find the right balance in your life for gay sex and you will enjoy it even more, to find amazing gay escorts to make this happen with visit www.sleepyboy.com

Outcalls is the term used for a gay escort to come to your place for your date. It’s a pretty universal phrase and those gay escorts who do outcalls have it listed on their profile, so you know they are willing to come to you. Everyone has different reasons for spending time with a gay escort, apart from the obvious mind-blowing sexual experience, and where you want to meet may differ because of your personal circumstances.

Hotel Meets

A hotel is a great place for meeting up with a gay escort, for many men they are still unable (for a variety of reasons) to tell their family that they are gay, so privacy is paramount when they want to meet a gay escort. Married men and professional men often cannot be seen in the company of a gay escort in public so hotels make the perfect place where you can relax, be private, and be pampered without the fear of being discovered. Hotels can be in your home town, out of town, in another city or even another country!

Gay Escorts & Mobility

If you have a disability or a mobility issue which means you cannot come to see a gay escort, then you can arrange for a gay escort to come and meet your in your home or a place of your choice. If you do have mobility issues or more complex health needs, then a gay escort can visit you in your home to provide a satisfying sexual experience while being in the comfort of your own space and equipment.

Business Meetings

Are you a busy man and need a gay escort to come to you, perhaps you have your own office then having a gay escort come to you is the quickest and easiest way to have an amazing sexual experience in the shortest possible time. Gay Escorts are often available to come on business trips with you and be a companion for you when you are away from home.

Truckers & Gay Escorts

If you drive a truck and know where you will be then you can arrange for a sexy gay escort to meet you at your truck stop for a rendezvous! Great gay sex is often better quick and in your truck, letting you fantasise about the meet all the way to your destination and then remember it until you can hook up again!

Gay Escorts are often available to meet you anywhere you choose, they are also often available at short notice meaning they can be ready for great gay sex whenever you are. Using the search functions on the sleepyboy website you can search for gay escorts near you and those who offer outcalls and those who are available right away. Whatever type of gay escort you are looking for your will find them on www.sleepyboy.com , simply send them a message to see if they can accommodate your request and then be ready to greet them when they arrive at the appointed time and place.

Many escorts at sleepyboy.com specialize in their own fetishes that might match yours, today we have prepared a list of escorts who enjoy water sports, some like to give, others receive! find a full list by clicking the image below.

Get Over Your Ex with a Gay Escort

Breakups can be liberating, and breakups can be hard. Sometimes they can be both, but however you have left it with your ex-boyfriend there will be some adjustments to your life going forwards. Depending on how long, how passionate or how serious your ex relationship was will depend on how long it takes to adjust and what steps you have to take to get over the ex and the role they played in your life.

Ways to get over your Ex-Boyfriend

If you have just broken up with an ex-boyfriend then here are some quick top tips on surviving the first few days, weeks and months.

1. Don’t call him, text him or message him in any way. It may feel very tempting but once you know it is over, what more is there to say. And most of all don’t call him when you have had a few drinks, you never know what you might say!
2. Spend time with friends – not his friend tho! Spending time with your own friends and being a little sad, lamenting, or angry about your ex is fine. If you have joint friends, or your friends have merged over time be careful about what you say and to whom, as they may repeat it back to your ex – as they are his friends too – perhaps a friend cull is in order to ensure you can separate fully!
3. Spend time on things that you enjoy. Maybe getting back into your running, starting a new class or picking up that hobby that has been doing nothing for a while is a great way to take your mind away from your ex.
4. Have an escape plan – If you and your ex still go to many of the same haunts there are a few things you should do. The first is perhaps find some new places to hang out, and the second is to have an escape plan for the inevitable time when you bump into your ex when you are out and about.
5. Have some great gay sex. One of the best ways to really know that you will be fine in the future is to have some great sex, to remind you there are plenty more fish in the sea, that you are attractive and desirable and gay sex just makes you feel great.

Gay Sex with a Gay Escort

Your first gay sex outing after breaking up with an ex can be potentially complicated. If you have been with your partner for a long time having sex with another man may seem very strange, if he was your first partner then having sex with another man can seem very scary and if you are worried you will never find anyone else to love you then finding a man to have sex with can seem daunting.

Fortunately, the best advice for having sex after a break up is to find a gay escort that makes you horny and then have an amazing sexual experience with them. Having sex with a gay escort avoids the awkward situation of perhaps having sex with someone you and your ex know, or stops you having to try and find someone else to have sex with when you are feeling a little low. A gay escort will make you feel at ease and give you an incredible sexual experience, you will feel wanted and desirable after your time together ready for what you new future is going to be.

The skilled hands of a gay masseuse running his hands all over your body, putting pressure in all thr right places and creating a soothing and truly enjoyable experience is something that every man needs to book into his calendar on a regular basis. If you have been neglecting some personal time of late then spring offer a great break in the year for you to reassess and book in some time that will help you rebalance, reenergize and reinvigorate.

Gay Escorts are often exceptionally skilled gay masseurs. Spring is here and there has never been a better time to try a gay massage from one of the amazing gay escorts listed on sleepyboy.com

Sensual Springtime Gay Massage

Gay Masseurs have been getting better and better over the years, with many of the adopting multiple techniques and using a range of relaxing and sensual massage oils to truly lubricate and relax the whole body before bringing you to a climatic finish. The relaxing nature of the massage and rhythmic kneading of the body, releasing all tension and creating a deep and intense orgasm is what makes these massages so popular.

Where to get a Gay Massage

Thinking of getting a gay massage this Spring? We have some great ideas about where you can start -

Countryside Massage: Getting back to nature is always a good idea and the Sprinig will have some great fresh days where you can get outside. Whether you get a relaxing massage in a park (heading indoors when you need more privacy of course) or have hiked out into the wilds so you ae not disturbed for some real outdoor massage action, having a gay massage in the great outdoors is something you should definitely try.

Poolside Massage: Not something common in the UK, but if you are lucky enough to have access to a private outdoor pool or have rented a private villa with a pool for a spring or Easter holiday then spending time with a gay escort to have a gay massage poolside is very luxurious and relaxing. After you have enjoyed getting your steamy massage you can jump in the pool to cool off.

Gay Massage is so Relaxing

Picnic Massage, as Spring begins to take shape is tempting to grab a picnic blanket, and a boxed lunch and head for somewhere quiet. Privacy for a more intimate gay massage is of course important, but even if it just a relaxing back massage a quiet picnic spot is a great place to enjoy one. Listening to nature and feeling the sun on your back is a most relaxing way to enjoy the services of a skilled gay masseur.

Luxury Hotel Massage: If you are travelling this spring, enhance your holiday or trip, or even in the area where you live with the services of a beautiful gay masseur at your hotel. Hire a lovely suite or hotel room for the evening and make a real event out of your time with the sexy gay escort who will give you the most amazing gay massage you have ever had while being totally relaxed in the luxury surroundings of the hotel you have chosen.

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Gay Escorts are truly the most amazing men on Earth, sexy, suave, sophisticated and available. They are able to not only satisfy your sexual desires but also make you feel confident and great about yourself in the process.

Expressing your Sexual Desires

If you have a sexual kink or wish then being able to play it out can be very freeing and lets you express yourself. Holding these sexual fantasies inside of you with no one to tell and no one to play them out with you, decreases your confidence and makes you feel alone. A Gay Escort is a professional who can take your needs and make all your sexual fantasies and desires come true.

Expressing your Sexuality

Unfortunately for some men being openly gay is still not possible in their day to day lives and so having satisfying sex can become impossible. A gay escort is a discrete and useful way to express your sexuality without having to 'out' yourself to your friends, family or colleagues. Great gay sex is guaranteed with a gay escort and this will make you more satisfied and relaxed that anything else.

First time nerves

Perhaps you want your first-time sexual encounter to be positive and fantastic with someone who can really make it incredible for you. Wondering and worrying about your first gay sex experience can make a huge dent in your confidence, so organising to have a very positive first sexual experience to boost your confidence with a gay escort is a great idea.

Regular Interactions

For many men having a relationship is just not possible for a variety of reasons so having a regular meet with a gay escort can not only be fulfilling sexually but also lets you let off steam, having someone listen to you and not judge wanting nothing in return is a great help to many men. Feeling wanted, feeling listened too without having to expel any emotional energy is what gay escorts excel at – that, along with amazing gay sex obviously!

Learn new skills

Perhaps you are unsure of your sexual prowess and want to be sure you can deliver a great experience with a sexual partner. If you have not had much sexual experience but want to increase your confidence and your skills, then a gay escort can be the answer to this problem. They are extremely sexually experienced and can help you discover what you like, and also how to make sure you have the confidence you need to satisfy a partner.

Confident Gay Escorts

Increasing your confidence with a gay escort is a great idea as you can be whoever you want to be with these incredibly sexy men. To find the best gay escort in the UK and abroad visit the biggest independent gay escort directory at www.sleepyboy.com

Can you Wake This Sleepyboy?

For many men the words inexperienced or virgin are difficult words to come to terms with, society often expects men to have all the answers and be sexually experienced as soon as they become sexually active. This is just not the case; gay porn can give a very unreal expectation about what real gay sex is and this make many men nervous about their first gay sex experience.

First Time Gay Sex

Being nervous about gay sex is completely normal for every man and for the first time and even the first few times it can be worrying about something that should be so pleasurable. Gay Escorts are the perfect answer to this nervousness to have the best first time pleasurable gay sex to make you excited for an enjoyable gay sex life to come.

Anal Sex Worries

Anal sex is the most pleasurable sexual experience, however if you have never done it before you can be worried about what to expect and whether you will do it right. A gay escort can take all those worries away, you can be completely honest about the fact you have never had anal sex before and your gay escort will make sure he takes it slow, and lets you enjoy every moment of your first anal sex experience.

Finding a Gay Sex Partner

Fining a gay sex partner, especially if you have never had gay sex before can be a challenge, you don’t necessarily want to have your first gay sex experience with a total stranger who won’t have any regard for your needs or wants, you want your first time to be something that you remember forever. Perhaps the best first time is with a loving and understanding partner, however many of us don’t want to wait until we find the perfect man, and when we do find him we would like to be sexually experiences so we can pleasure him. The answer to these quandaries is a gay escort, friendly, professional and willing to be there to please you with no reciprocations needed, your first time will be a bench mark for all the rest.

Discrete Gay Sex

If you are looking to have gay sex for the first time but have not yet come out as gay, or you don’t intend to come out as gay then choosing the right man to have your first gay sexual experience with can be a challenge. It can’t be with someone you know, and a stranger may not understand how important your privacy is too you. So, the answer to having a completely discrete gay sex experience is to find a gay escort you find attractive and then meet them for a date. Gay Escorts understanf the need for privacy and you can tell them the truth about your lack of gay sex experience so they can ensure you have the best and most fulfilling time ever.

To find the best gay escorts for a first time gay sex experience visit www.sleepyboy.com, find a guy that makes you horny and then send them a message explaining what you are looking for, that it is your first time and they can lead you from there.