When you’re in throws of wild sex, the action can sometimes get a little over enthusiastic and rough. While some people may consider sexual activities like slapping, spanking, and choking to be acceptable during rough sex, others may find the experience uncomfortable, scary or disturbing.
Gay Escorts & Rough Sex
It’s therefore important to set sex boundaries, especially when you’re hooking up for mutual pleasure and casual sex with a gay escort.
If you tune into porn to get turned on, you’ve probably noticed that slapping and choking tends to feature quite regularly. Just because it looks like it’s the norm, it doesn’t mean that it’s going on behind everyone’s closed bedroom door.
Kinky practices like BDSM, require Doms and Subs to follow a strict etiquette guideline, to ensure the safety of everyone involved. As a sexually active guy who enjoys NSA adult fun, your sex life could also benefit from having healthy boundaries.
Rough, But Not THAT Rough
Everyone is naturally sexually turned on by different things, and by alternate forms of stimulation. A sexual activity, or technique, that you think is mild may be perceived to be rough by your sex partner.
If you enjoy experimenting with kinky play in the bedroom, it’s essential that you set boundaries and communicate your likes and dislikes. In a committed relationship, sex boundaries allow you to intimately connect on a deeper level. If you’re a single guy, it’s just as important to set sex boundaries, if you’re fucking a variety of casual partners.
Be upfront and open to discussing your boundaries with your favourite gay escort. Being respectful of each other’s boundaries is part of the consensual experience.
How Do You Like It?
If the thought of rough sex gets all hot and bothered, you need to let your sexual partner know BEFORE you get down to having sex.
Choking and slapping are intense activities that require consent from both parties. They also need to be clearly defined, when you’re communicating what gets you rock hard. As ‘rough sex’ isn’t a catchall phrase that sums up everything kinky, you need to be very specific about what you mean when you say “I love to slap or choke”.
Slapping can be extremely painful and harmful, if done on parts of the body that are highly sensitive. Using the wrong slapping technique can also cause considerable pain. Do also bear in mind that rough sex can have a detrimental impact on a partner’s emotional wellbeing.
Be Respectful
If your gay escort doesn’t share your love of rough sex, do not force it. If his definition of fun doesn’t include having sexual activity that is rough, compromise by finding alternative experiences that you can enjoy together.
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